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Is it a red flag if he’s seems interested one minute and then seems really dry the next over text?
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Anonymous 5w

There another name for this but its essentially the push-pull method. You receive attention from a guy and they suddenly pull away then will give you attention again. Men often do this because they think women would keep being interested in them and start to seek out their attention especially when they suddenly pull away. I personally think this method is childish and very manipulative bc if thats how you have to keep a girl's attention they have to be boring

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Anonymous 5w

He could just be dumb

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Anonymous 5w

Ya, i feel like it sends mixed signals

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Anonymous 5w

yes it’s such a red flag. if he really wanted you you would know

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Anonymous 4w

A guy who’s interested in you is intentional. Not perfect but he’ll let it be known that he wants to be committed to you

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Anonymous 5w

No. Some people just don’t know how to text.

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Anonymous 4w

Sometimes people have things to do other than text all day. Could be that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Interest does not equate to commitment, just saying

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

There has to be an interest first in everything, but yeah they can fly off afterwards. What I was getting to was that people who want to be committed will continue their interest in you. Thanks for sharing that!

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