No you're actually insanely right

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Absolutely not, would definitely do the same

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It wouldn’t have worked out in the long run with differences like this

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I don’t think you are wrong for that, did your ex also believe in that stuff?

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No, got in a fight with a friend about this. “Well even though theyre MAGA that doesnt make them evil” girl they want my ass dead

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i don’t think there is a wrong or right in this situation. you definitely did what’s right for you (which for me as well, coming from an immigrant family is something that i als wouldn’t feel comfortable with) from reading the comments i do definitely feel bad for her in the sense that you can’t control who your family is. however, if you are in a situation that is super uncomfortable it’s best to take yourself out of it. do what feels right for you

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Nope you are so right

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not at all

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That’s definitely valid to break up over

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Girl you’re right RUN

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not at ALL

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No, that’s a perfectly rational choice. Find a gf with a family who values basic human decency

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No you’re good.

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you are so right, even if ur gf tells u that its j her fam and not her opinions, dating her would still include family events and etc. also you dont deserve to sit through a convo abt how ice is actually “good” u did the right thing

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no u should be with someone who’s fam u feel comfy and safe with duh

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Jarvis…..I need karma….please….

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It’s complicated. My most recent ex was Mexican and his family was very much against ICE but my family is all Catholic and white and conservative so he would always make jabs at me around his family saying I’d deport them all and it made me really uncomfortable

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No, you’re not wrong. You’re all good.

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Nope not at all

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Well i feel you are and not wrong. You can break up with anyone for any reason. If you feel like you weren’t gonna work long-term then sure. But like you said, she isnt pro ice. Was it unfair to her? Yes. But then again being around her family is too. I would’ve given her an option to talk to her parents/limited contact with her family vs outright breaking up with her. My grandma was a 1st gen American btws

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she didn’t do anything wrong and her views are different, you could have gotten over your difference in opinions for the small amount of time you’re around her family and limit the amount of time spent with them. you punished a girl for something she had nothing to control or influence over

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