no most of them are reasonable it just depends on the girl, these aren’t like crazyyy requests. Personally, the only dealbreaker for me is the last name bc as my fathers only biological child, I want my name and my children’s name to be hyphenated but i think i’m rare in that

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Honestly I’m stealing this list 🤣🤣😅 this sounds like perfectly reasonable expectations for a long term partner

46

This isn’t even strict!!!

41

Some of these are fine and some of these are a little weird. You want someone to cook and such but she also has to have time for hobbies outside of the home? Are you going to help her? Doesn’t yell at parents: how do you know the relationship they have with their parents? “Hasn’t been with everyone on earth” just another way of body shaming women.

33

damn is your guy friend single?

24

wears retainer is lowkey insane

17

I don’t think he’s crazy, he has values, self respect, and isn’t willing to settle for less. None of these things are absurd or derogatory towards women, he just has standards and that’s great for him

13

perfectly reasonable but like why did he write this down? that’s the weird part imo😭

12

I count 10 red flags 🚩this dude sucks (and he has a small dick)

11

No septum piercings???? BROTHER IS LOST

10

Most of it was fine until I got to “doesn’t raise her voice at me” like what

9

dang no septum and gotta have kids 💔

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#6 is slut shaming, #8 demands she respects parents regardless of whether they deserve respect, #12 is superficial and designed to weed out feminists, #14 he calls people bums, #15 ego issue, #16 see #12, #17 wants a free cook, not a partner, #18 purity culture is pedo culture, but combined with #6 (which doesn’t demand total purity) its clear he has a small dick and wants to hide that until the woman is trapped in marriage, #19 wants a mom, not a partner, #22 has bad values and wants respect

9

It’s creepy he has this list on his phone at the ready

7

wait after the many notifs from this post (i forgot to turn the off), does he have to follow all these things too?! and whatever else the partner wants? compromising?

6

I also made a list so fair

6

The hair one is hilarious, at least bros not fake

5

This is a dude

4

Floor level requirements and most guys can’t even get this

4

W list

4

I feel like some of them are pretty normal.

3

It’s giving sexist

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The hasn’t been with anyone/will wait till marriage is a dealbreaker - you can’t have values you don’t exhibit so if he isn’t a virgin he can’t ask that.

1

The one that really creeps me out is “doesn’t raid her voice at me” that screams he just wants a submissive housewife who does everything while he bums around

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the septum one is the only one where i’m like cmon dude, he could’ve said all piercings

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