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I have been dating a guy for almost a year, and he hid that he switched jobs and quit his last one for the last two months.. I love him but that lie broke my heart. advice?
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Anonymous 13h

That’s a really bizarre thing to lie about I would ask him why he didn’t mention it

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Anonymous 13h

Break up or talk to him about that. Why would he not tell you that? I would be worried what other things he would be hiding

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Anonymous 12h

I don’t like that. Honesty is so important in a relationship. There are some things that you keep personal but this is a really big thing to keep from you. Honestly he probably lied a lot to cover it up. They are harmless lies but they’re still lies… I don’t think lies in a relationship are good

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

He says he’s not hiding anything but my gut says he is… and he’s being wishy washy with when we can talk about it…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

I agree, and he said he was scared I’d get mad since I got him that first job. but idk anymore tbh.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

not that it makes it okay to lie but that reason for hiding it makes sense to me

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