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What are things that girls find attractive?
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Anonymous 1d

confidence, kindness, manners, maturity, humor, intelligence, good listening skills, ability to empathize/ emotionally support, romance, affection, ambition

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Anonymous 1d

Kindness, compassion, drive, good listening skills, being good with kids, humor, self confidence, hobbies, friends

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Anonymous 1d

Be tall

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Alright, in your opinion whats the minimum hieght

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Depends if she’s shorter but baseline 6’ ur chilling. Obviously it’s other things but that’s the first thing most girls notice. It’s frame and height overall, also have a nice smile. Smell good, look groomed and u should be good

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

ya thats a dude

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

But ngl if you have confidence or at least can fake it well then she might just overlook a lot of what you lack physically

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I appreciate the advice, but I was just curious what females think yk. I can get girls, but i was just curious

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1d

You dont hear that often, I remember talking to this one girl and she was straight up with me. She flat out told me, she only liked me cause I was “attractive”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Like I was happy but I didn’t know how to feel about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Blackpill lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

oof that’s rough. and yeah ofc there’s lots of physical traits too that women find attractive, but that’s more variable across women. the good character stuff is really what will set you apart. there’s plenty of hot guys. what women want more of is good guys too

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Chilll😂, but I think its sorta rough cause I always viewed myself as funny and kind but they just overlook it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

ur in a cult

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

It’s subjective to each girl, like I’m short so I won’t ever date a rly tall guy (max I’d go is 5’11) like my ideal height is 5’6-5’9 ish

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 20h

Hobbies like what?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

Things u like to do like, workout, soccer, fishing, painting, etc

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 20h

What does confidence look like to you? What do I do to get women interested in me you know?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

to me confidence looks like being able to be flirty and hold a conversation/ eye contact without appearing too nervous. good posture, calm demeanor, acting like they’re sure of themselves ya know ? not coming across insecure or shy

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 19h

Damn okay how do I even get over my nervousness of going up to and talking to a woman I want to pursue

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

practicing will help.

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 19h

Okay I feel like I just don’t know what to say or how to flirt

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

yeah that’s def gonna set you back. gotta practice them social skills. just be friendly, ask questions, compliment

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 18h

But also I’m not the most attractive but I am very kind, pretty good listener, kind of emotionally intelligent. I’m a great guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

How do I flirt though?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14h

Basically anything besides gambling or drinking.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 13h

How do I make women laugh?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 13h

Be silly and have fun with her!

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