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Lowkey developed an irrational fear of guys in middle and high school and I fear it’s still here. Anyone else feel the same?
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Anonymous 4w

yep! was with the same group of ppl from 3rd-12th grade and i got bullied by the guys for most of middle and highschool. like lots of racism type of bullying since i was like the only poc in my pwi. its made me very fearful and anxious of white teenage boys in general unfortunately and i find it very difficult to connect and bond w them. its something i work on but i will always have a voice in the back of my head telling me to never trust them or to never assume the best from them

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Anonymous 4w

No, it was the opposite for me because the girls are very clique-y while the guys let me play Minecraft and terraria with them lol

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Anonymous 4w

Do you know where that stems from? And do you have an issue with it? (I have a fear of heights but I haven’t cared about it to fix it cause it doesn’t really bug me)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

its become especially frustrating when it comes to dating bc i genuinely find it sooo hard to just open up and trust them. it feels like im constantly expecting the worst outcome to happen even if theyve been nothing but nice

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