Anonymous #1 1d

Miscarriages can happen to anyone and are often unavoidable, so absolutely no blaming you or your partner. And I’m sorry for your loss. But if both of you put extra effort into your health, it may help.

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Anonymous #1 1d

We both don’t drink or smoke, I’m plus size, but I have gotten the all clear from multiple doctors. In fact, they call me “fertile Myrtle” in the drs offices. But I know the first one was due to a lot of stress. He has Crohn’s disease and a liver condition, so that’s been the biggest concern, but he has both conditions under wraps. We’re trying every other day this cycle in hopes it’ll work

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Anonymous OP 1d

It sounds like you’re doing everything you can then. I wish I had something to add, but all I can do is wish you a healthy pregnancy

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Anonymous #3 1d

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Anonymous OP 1d

you’re so young, everything is gonna be fine

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Anonymous #3 1d

It’s been a full year of trying though. And nothing

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Anonymous OP 1d

everything is gonna be fine

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Anonymous #4 1d

We’ve wanted to. But can’t. His parents would flip if they knew we were trying

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Anonymous OP 1d

if yall are scared of his parents reaction how do you think they’re gonna react if they find out you’re pregnant? youre only 21 and you’re putting yourself through a lot physically and emotionally. i really think you need to get his sperm tested because if that’s the problem (and it sounds like there’s a good chance it is) you’re just gonna keep putting yourself through a lot of heartbreak and strain on your body for no reason

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Anonymous #4 1d

So we’ve been together for 3 years. We’re practically engaged, living together for well over 2 years now. Their only “issue” is that we’re young in their eyes. They keep telling us how badly they want grandchildren. But we mention having a baby, and it’s a problem. But then they spoil my best friends kid all the time, saying “oh please have kids

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Anonymous OP 1d

that makes sense to me. it sounds like there’s a disconnect between how they view your life stage and how you view it. i’m asking personal questions so don’t answer if you’re uncomfortable but have you considered getting married or eloping? it sounds like that would fix the disconnect in their eyes and yall could get some more support

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Anonymous #4 1d

if the drs are calling you fertile myrtle, you’re not the part of the equation that needs help. and it sounds like he won’t be able to get any until he gets support from his parents. regardless of what that means, from an outsiders perspective, it sounds like that’s the next step is for yall.

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Anonymous #4 1d

We’ve been talking about it, but his parents also have an issue with us getting engaged at 21-22 y/o

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Anonymous #4 1d

In their minds. You must wait until you’re in your mid 30s to have kids and get married.

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