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(Extra details in comments) This guy, 2 Thursdays ago, asked for my number & I have seen him once since for a 1hr hang out in a public area. A. Was what I said an appropriate response & B. Is it justified to feel uncomfortable w/ proceeding to see him now
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Anonymous 1d

Absolutely, I think you handled that well. The fact that he asked if there was a right or wrong answer makes me think he was 100% lying and really is just looking for hookups to be so real.

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Anonymous 1d

1. He tries to stay mysterious. He asked me what my last name was and I told him, but when I did the same thing, he omitted it from conversation and remarked on how he doesn’t give out much detail. This occurred with a few other things, but this is the main one I remembered 2. About half of his questions on our first hangout were intimacy-related 3. He has remarked a sexual comment twice at this point, and I get flustered with compliments so ofc I got flustered with this

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Anonymous 1d

I think it’s justified. And tbh idk why men say long term and then say they can’t have fun as well as if long term isn’t having fun, just with the title wrapped around it in an exclusive relationship. They treat it so separately I don’t get it. Just be honest, you want something casual

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Anonymous 1d

What you said isn’t wrong and you’re justified in feeling that way. Not everyone is comfortable talking about sexual subjects that quickly

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Anonymous 1d

ew completely cringey from him I couldn't even keep watching. no matter how mean you were, you were in the right

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I feel like his information sharing comfort is way off. He doesn’t want to share basic information but is ready to share intimacy charged questions and comments, and I am just uncomfortable with that

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 1d

See that’s what I’m thinking. When he replied that, I kinda wanted to say that if he had to ask that I knew what is answer was but I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt just in case I was the wrong one

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I feel as if many say that because they know that’s how they can get a girl to “play” with for a time instead of saying flat out that they’re looking for something casual

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

He has commitment issues if he can’t even share basic information like his full name or like a birthday or something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

If he won’t give you his full name, literally run. It’s likely he doesn’t want to be looked up (charges on adults are public record so if you looked him up you would see all of that) or he doesn’t want you to see his social media

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 1d

Check out the update LOL

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Maybe his name is on the Tea App and he doesnt want it to hurt his chances? Idk why he cant share his NAME

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