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Why is “small dick” used as an insult towards men whenever they try to be egotistical? Isn’t it just body shaming but really normalized ?
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Anonymous 10w

Honestly I don’t know. I think it’s meant to hit it where it hurts, since we get a lot of body shaming. But that doesn’t make it okay

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Anonymous 10w

Just one of the many double standards women maintain

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Anonymous 10w

I don’t think it’s literal, men associate a larger dick with status and think it’s what pleases women. Women know this so when they say something like that it’s more like saying his attitude is unattractive and he’s egotistical (by trying to look more “alpha” or whatever bc they are not). He could actually have a massive dick it’s more about the energy that our culture assigns/associates with a certain behavior. I’m not saying it’s right but it’s not really about their body.

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Anonymous 10w

because men with small dicks tend to be insecure and feel emasculated so they act overtly egotistical to make themselves feel better. but yes it is body shaming and is not okay even if it may be technically true for some men

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Anonymous 10w

We Should start referring to them as chihuahuas or small dogs instead, because they feel the need to overcompensate for their situation in life

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Anonymous 10w

Literally I just say whatever will hurt creeps the most. Like training a dog, you squirt water in their face (metaphorically) when they screw up so that (1) they don’t do it again, but more importantly, (2) women see that it’s ok to degrade them and disregard their feelings. Women who see you talk down on entitled men will be less likely to get in cars with them, and that will save lives.

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Anonymous 10w

womp

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Anonymous 10w

Tbh, I think it kinda evolved as a hit em where it hurts mentality. If somebody drives a big truck they’re viewed in a lot of ways as “simple minded” so the simple minded insult is having a teeny dick. They might not understand the nuance of a Redgrin Grumble joke.

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Anonymous 10w

I think it’s bc the idea that they are “compensating” for what they don’t have that would make them considered more “masculine” and “desirable” (aka larger junk) and so they have to compensate by making their personalities loud and obnoxious idk i hink that’s the basis or origin

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Anonymous 10w

Hopefully mine isn’t small

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 10w

Yeah but except most of the times they are not even said to the person directly. Like if you see someone driving loud or obnoxious, it’s just associated with him having a “small dick”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Ah! Yeah okay I think I understand what you are talking about. These things- like driving loudly and obnoxious is synonymous with having low self esteem (to us) so that’s the go to insult. I don’t do that but that is the why I suppose. Me and my mom just talk about how it’s extremely unattractive.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 10w

Yeah the implication js they’re made/insecure about something, usually it’s size or look or money, and so they project that insecurity

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

I mean I’m not trying to dismiss your experiences here but everyone has had that experience. I’ve been made fun of for my body more times than I can count. Men and women. It’s shitty people doing shitty people stuff. People will take insecurity and capitalize on it.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 10w

I’m agreeing with you! I just didn’t proofread my comment. Mad/insecure about something*

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

One thing to note, I only do this to unsafe men or men who act unsafe/entitled to women.

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