Ask Women on Sidechat | Why is “small dick” used as an insult towards men whenever they try to be egotistical? Isn’t it just body shaming but really normalized ?

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Why is “small dick” used as an insult towards men whenever they try to be egotistical? Isn’t it just body shaming but really normalized ?

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Anonymous 18h

Honestly I don’t know. I think it’s meant to hit it where it hurts, since we get a lot of body shaming. But that doesn’t make it okay

Anonymous 18h

Just one of the many double standards women maintain

Anonymous 16h

I don’t think it’s literal, men associate a larger dick with status and think it’s what pleases women. Women know this so when they say something like that it’s more like saying his attitude is unattractive and he’s egotistical (by trying to look more “alpha” or whatever bc they are not). He could actually have a massive dick it’s more about the energy that our culture assigns/associates with a certain behavior. I’m not saying it’s right but it’s not really about their body.

Anonymous 16h

because men with small dicks tend to be insecure and feel emasculated so they act overtly egotistical to make themselves feel better. but yes it is body shaming and is not okay even if it may be technically true for some men

Anonymous 17h

We Should start referring to them as chihuahuas or small dogs instead, because they feel the need to overcompensate for their situation in life

Anonymous 12h

Literally I just say whatever will hurt creeps the most. Like training a dog, you squirt water in their face (metaphorically) when they screw up so that (1) they don’t do it again, but more importantly, (2) women see that it’s ok to degrade them and disregard their feelings. Women who see you talk down on entitled men will be less likely to get in cars with them, and that will save lives.

Anonymous 18h

cuz men with small dick will act all big and bad and aggressive to over compensate for their small peen. it’s something they’re very insecure about

Anonymous 15h

womp

Anonymous 8h

Tbh, I think it kinda evolved as a hit em where it hurts mentality. If somebody drives a big truck they’re viewed in a lot of ways as “simple minded” so the simple minded insult is having a teeny dick. They might not understand the nuance of a Redgrin Grumble joke.

Anonymous 11h

Hopefully mine isn’t small

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Anonymous

strawberry_hair 18h

Yeah but except most of the times they are not even said to the person directly. Like if you see someone driving loud or obnoxious, it’s just associated with him having a “small dick”

Anonymous

#3 17h

Yeah but I don’t think women would be fine with it if there was a woman equivalent for it like “small tits” or something. Would you? So why the double standard ?

Anonymous

OP 17h

no it doesn’t matter to me what men say about my body cuz i get fucked & loved on whenever i want

Anonymous

OP 17h

That also is different as the shape of boobs are kinda able to be seen. A dick normally isn’t. Also I don’t care if you call me “small tits” because we both are well aware that I don’t have small tits so it just sounds weird

Anonymous

#4 17h

How does it have anything to do with it being seen or not tho? It was just an example lol. If you want it to be really equivalent then I guess something like “loose pussy” or “stank coochie” 😭.

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Anonymous

OP 17h

Like what if someone has small tits, would the insult not be ok? Like how does it matter? Everything is just body shaming

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Anonymous

OP 17h

when you’re secure stuff like that doesn’t get to you.

Anonymous

#3 17h

Personally think it’s just an immature/shitty thing to be doing

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Anonymous

OP 17h

Ah! Yeah okay I think I understand what you are talking about. These things- like driving loudly and obnoxious is synonymous with having low self esteem (to us) so that’s the go to insult. I don’t do that but that is the why I suppose. Me and my mom just talk about how it’s extremely unattractive.

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Anonymous

OP 17h

So that’s not even a thing at all. It’s a muscle so it doesn’t get lose and if it does smell that’s a sign of an infection. Just because someone is shitty to you, doesn’t mean you have to be shitty back.

Anonymous

strawberry_hair 17h

I never said I used/would use those ever, I’m just saying how do you not realize that it’s a double standard? Cuz I am assuming the women who use “small d” insults wouldn’t be fine with insults thrown at them.

Anonymous

OP 16h

Don’t even bother replying this person is legit dense asf and a professional yik yak user

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Anonymous

OP 16h

it's not really body shaming. it's not literal. he could have a massive hammer - the idea is just that he's compensating for something by being a prick. when somebody says "she has small tits" or "that person is fat" it's a literal comment on appearance

Anonymous

strawberry_hair 16h

Yeah the implication js they’re made/insecure about something, usually it’s size or look or money, and so they project that insecurity

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Anonymous

#8 16h

I mean I’m not trying to dismiss your experiences here but everyone has had that experience. I’ve been made fun of for my body more times than I can count. Men and women. It’s shitty people doing shitty people stuff. People will take insecurity and capitalize on it.

Anonymous

strawberry_hair 15h

I’m agreeing with you! I just didn’t proofread my comment. Mad/insecure about something*

Anonymous

#7 15h

Not necessarily all the time. Those insults literally can be used when you haven’t even seen the person, just to get to them. Anyway doesn’t disregard the fact that it associates a small penis as something bad when you say it’s “compensating” for something . Hence the body shaming aspect

Anonymous

OP 14h

it's still very literal when people call people fat that they can't see. they are talking about having excess body fat, whereas with the "little dick" comment it's not really about a penis at all; it's about masculine compensation if you want to call it body shaming go for it - i don't think that's flat out inaccurate - i just don't think it falls under the same purview. it's sorta like saying somebody's got a big head - it's not about the size of their head it's about their ego

Anonymous

OP 14h

like when you call someone fat it's a comment on appearance, but when you say "little dick" it's a comment on personality/attitude. but you do you - i don't think you'd be in the wrong to call it that. i just wouldn't

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Anonymous

OP 14h

Oh no it’s absolutely a double standard. And I acknowledged that already. I’m just saying it shouldn’t be done anyways. One person being an asshole doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be better.

Anonymous

#11 12h

One thing to note, I only do this to unsafe men or men who act unsafe/entitled to women.