Ask Women on Sidechat | Idk what to do. I’ve been w my bf for a few years and recently, I feel like he’s been being so mean and rude to me. He used to be so sweet and caring and he’s changed sm. I love him sm and don’t wanna leave him but do at the same time.

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Ask Women 2w

Idk what to do. I’ve been w my bf for a few years and recently, I feel like he’s been being so mean and rude to me. He used to be so sweet and caring and he’s changed sm. I love him sm and don’t wanna leave him but do at the same time.

Anonymous 2w

It is so hard to let go when you love someone, but if he is mistreating you and not giving you the love and respect you deserve, PLEASE end the relationship. God has something so much better for you

Anonymous 2w

I recently broke up with mine over stuff like this. He started making comments about me that I and my friends did not like. One day we got in a stupid argument, which was fine, but he expected me to view him as an authority on the subject and not argue at all, and then I got the sense that he was gaslighting me. Cut it off the next morning, so glad I did.

Anonymous 2w

That care* not dare lol

Anonymous

#1 2w

Thank you. I’ve tried having conversations with him but he just won’t do it. Were a longer distance couple and I was crying earlier because of shit I was watching (very obvious and even said “this made me cry” to a TikTok) and he just completely ignored it. Recently, he’s also trying to act like a nonchalant single black guy (he’s half black) and just been saying weird shit. I’m also not a sexual person and he always says shit like “yeah I don’t even really wanna do anything anyways…”

Anonymous

OP 2w

Yeahh it’s sounding like he’s withdrawing emotionally—if you’ve talked to him and he isn’t acknowledging your feelings or changing u will save urself a lot of future pain by letting go. I’ve been there girl and it gets better I promise :)

Anonymous

#1 2w

Thank you.

Anonymous

#1 2w

Would it be bad for me to start being/acting with drawled and detached to see if he will act like normal?

Anonymous

OP 2w

It would be interesting to see his reaction—if you’re willing to draw out the situation and potentially give him something he can throw back in ur face (like if you guys break up and you tell him how he’s been acting he’ll deflect and just say that u did the same, sigh🙄) then it’s ok, I probably wouldn’t tempt it bc you shouldn’t have to pull back for someone to love you as you should be and show u that dare, but it is ur relationship, just do what is best for u and know it is ok to let go

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Anonymous

OP 2w

You could, but start letting go. As someone who’s been in that kind of situation I promise you will be okay even if it doesn’t seem like it at first.