What do I do when my bf doesn’t want to have sex anymore but I have needs? I really want to get intimate with him but he doesn’t want to have sex which I completely understand but I feel like he isn’t attracted to me even though he has reassured me.
these are all valid questions and concerns but they're also all things you'd really need to discuss with him
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Anonymous21h
Talk to him about it. If he’s still with you after a long time he cares about you. If he isn’t in the mood he isn’t in the mood and no means no. Hard boundary.
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Anonymous#421h
When he’s not in the mood that’s fine I understand, but how can I tell him I need more reassurance (he talked to 2 girls behind my back) and I think that just made me feel “insecure” about it.(idk if I’m explaining it right)