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What do I do when my bf doesn’t want to have sex anymore but I have needs? I really want to get intimate with him but he doesn’t want to have sex which I completely understand but I feel like he isn’t attracted to me even though he has reassured me.
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Anonymous 1d

these are all valid questions and concerns but they're also all things you'd really need to discuss with him

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Anonymous 21h

Talk to him about it. If he’s still with you after a long time he cares about you. If he isn’t in the mood he isn’t in the mood and no means no. Hard boundary.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

When he’s not in the mood that’s fine I understand, but how can I tell him I need more reassurance (he talked to 2 girls behind my back) and I think that just made me feel “insecure” about it.(idk if I’m explaining it right)

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