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How it feels each time I try to get a date
12 upvotes, 9 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "How it feels each time I try to get a date"
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Anonymous 1d

This made me chuckle

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Anonymous 1d

Not a question

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Why do women reject men at super high rates? It used to not be like this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Because we have rights now.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Partly because we’re comfortable being alone and focusing on school/career in our 20s. Partly because men don’t ask right lots of times

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

So then how do men ask right?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

With a question in their post and politely

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I see a lot of men come on too fast or too strong, or go straight to the sexual stuff (not saying you do of course!). All of those turn girls away. I think good conversation, good banter, and make it clear you like her as a person/friend before asking for a chill first date

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

You might already do those things of course. There are lots of factors feel free to DM. I’m no expert though just a girl

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