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What does a girl want in a guy? Please be BRUTALLY honest.
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Anonymous 2w

already found him but kindness, respect, intelligence, maturity, empathy, humor, romance. someone i can trust and count on. someone who supports me emotionally but also challenges me. someone i can lean on and someone who feels comfortable leaning on me too. and good looks, a rockin bod and skills in bed are added bonus

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Anonymous 2w

6 foot 6 figures 6 inches 6 kids 6 jobs 6 side pieces 6 uncles and 6/10 looks

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Anonymous 2w

Leftist and progressive, genuinely kind to others, has ambition and interesting life goals, willing to communicate emotions, booksmart, decent fashion sense For me personally

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Anonymous 2w

Good conversation, humor, steady job and a gentleman. Looks are more of a preference but not a dealbreaker.

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Anonymous 2w

Someone who aligns with their values, is willing to be vulnerable, a supporter, sparks interesting and meaningful conversations, and brings joy to their life

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Anonymous 2w

An eater

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Anonymous 2w

Is actually respectful of me and my body. Doesn’t watch porn. Doesn’t cheat. Doesn’t lie. And respect my boundaries and the word no….It’s hard to find.

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Anonymous 2w

a yearner please ☝️ tbh sometimes i think if any man truly loved me enough i might fall in love w them based on that only

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Anonymous 2w

I'd say someone you know you can count on that actually listens to you and help you in your daily life. So many guys give the household chores, the child care, and sometimes finances to the women and expect them to do it themselves. And there isn't a break even when you go on vacation you still need to do all of this. Pretty much a friend and a partner that you work with that takes some

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Anonymous 2w

Be 6ft plus or have a chiseled European features. Anything that’s a deviation from these is -1 points in SMV

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Anonymous 2w

Humor, empathy, honesty, thoughtfulness, affection

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Anonymous 2w

I’m a guy, and truly do appreciate the advice given here. With that in mind, still unsure why I’m single, but it’ll happen if it’s meant to happen I guess—-

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Anonymous 2w

Loud in bed

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Anonymous 2w

Compassion, respect, and not being nonchalant

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Anonymous 2w

6ft tall 🙄

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Anonymous 2w

Money, a big dick, No kids, no parents, eats pussy like he’s getting paid.

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 2w

Thank you for the honest reply

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

6…7…

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Unfortunately that was 6x8

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

6……7…. 🤤🤤🤤

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

Alright which one of y’all thought this was a bad list 🤨

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

I gotchu

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

No parents? So what, he came out of a giant sea shell or something?

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

Are you into Batman or something LOL

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 2w

How tall and how white?

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2w

how sad and lonely are you? he’s white and 5’6.

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 2w

Called the first part

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2w

i’ve dated men of all different races. ur miserable.

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 2w

Don’t be so upset, preferences like these are biologically hardwired and socioculturally backed

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2w

i don’t have a preference for white people. and it seems like you’re the one upset, making assumptions about me

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 2w

Eh, it’s scientifically backed. Feliciano, C., Robnett, B., & Komaie, G. (2009) "Gendered racial exclusion among White Internet daters." Social Science Research, 38(1), 39-54. Found that racial preferences in dating are often shaped by racial hierarchies, stereotypes, and social conditioning, particularly among White users.

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2w

i’m not even fully white bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2w

genuinely what is the point of you coming on here, it’s screaming self hating incel

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 2w

Even if you don’t explicitly go for it, subconscious preferences are prioritized systematically. It is what it is

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 2w

Science doesn’t lie, sorry!

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2w

the reason you don’t get any play isn’t because or your race. it’s because you’re a loser

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 2w

Oh I’m dating a white guy, I make no claims to be different here.

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 2w

We’re the same lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2w

we’re really not, i don’t make everything about race. weird ass

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 2w

You’d be surprised

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2w

lol lots of bitter men in this comment section

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 2w

They just can’t handle the truth LoL

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2w

It’s you ur bitter

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 2w

Nope, I’m happy with my whitman, same as hellraiser 😘

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 2w

Maybe git gud if you can’t handle the harsh reality LOL

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2w

Your only “evidence” is a 2006 study about online dating. Most of us were toddlers at that point in life LOL

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