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Can anyone share happy relationship or life stories after breaking up with first love? Its been months and I still cannot see the light so I need some hope core 💗
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Anonymous 1d

not a story but I finally get to go on a study abroad trip that I never would have gone of while dating him, I enjoy every day that I can put my feelings first and do what I want without checking in on someone else’s opinions

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Anonymous 1d

my last relationship was so toxic, every day was a battle but it had its good moments too. that’s what made it so hard, i held onto those good moments for long that after we officially parted ways, it felt like something was missing whether it was the chaos of our relationship or his presence. i genuinely thought there wasn’t an ‘after him’. but there is, theres alway a before, during, and after. trust me, if it didn’t work out, it’s for the best rather than forcing it. accepting is one of the

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Anonymous 1d

I thought I loved him but I just loved the person he presented. Eventually he started to show who he was and that made me be one of the worst versions of myself but I was to attached to leave. After breaking up and getting together 2 times every time I would feel more disconnected and it wasn’t him I loved but the person I thought he was when we first met. Eventually he cheated on me and it ended things for good. I wasn’t even sad about him cheatingI was just sad at the person he was in the end

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

first steps. i was in denial for the longest time, but as soon i started accepting it and taking it as a lesson, i met so many wonderful people. i met my now boyfriend who’s honestly my best friend and lover. if i had never accepted and moved on, i would have never had the opportunity to open this new chapter. even after, im still realizing there’s so much more to this world than your first love. i just hope to continue those new chapters with my boyfriend. you will meet someone, you will have

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

the moments you deserve, and you will be loved. now i don’t know how recent it has been for you, but cheer up okay? you may not trust me, but you will see the other side of this chapter in your life :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Omg thank you💗 also happy for you!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Thank you!! About to go abroad too soon

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

omg this was so similar to my story, we were together for 1 year 6 months, and while i was traveling he had cheated on me with multiple girls and paid for sex, it wasn’t even that he cheated, but who he was all along that destroyed me

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