honestly not really sure why girls with hip dips are so insecure? theres always gonna be someone out there’d who’d give you a chance. really not sure why you complain when it’s about personality anyway
beauty/cosmetic/self-image industrial complex will always invent new things to turn into insecurities
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Anonymous1d
yes logically it doesn’t make sense but it’s hard to unlearn the beauty standards that have been hammered into our brains since we were 5 years old
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Anonymous1d
like as a guy I personally am not at all attracted to hip dips, but that’s just my preference. i’ve had some great friends with hip dips, and I’m always on the lookout for a good guy that doesn’t mind and is right for them
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AnonymousOP1d
not sure why this was downvoted, it’s just my personal preference lol. i can’t exactly control whether or not i’m attracted to hip dips
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AnonymousOP1d
It’s weird to make a post asking why people are insecure about something and then say “oh but I don’t like them at all”
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Anonymous#31d
why is that weird? i’m sure there are guys out there who don’t mind. just because i don’t find hip dips attractive doesn’t mean there aren’t guys who do
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AnonymousOP1d
It’s weird because they’re often insecure and worried that people won’t be attractive to them because of their hip dips. You are an example of their fears being real yet don’t understand why they’re insecure
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Anonymous#321h
so are men not allowed to have preferences now?
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AnonymousOP21h
That isn’t what I said. What I find strange is that you don’t understand why women are insecure about something and then say that you don’t like that thing either. You answered your own question. They are insecure because of beauty standards and people like you
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Anonymous#321h
lol so it’s my fault that women with hip dips are insecure? why can’t they just accept that not everyone is going to be attracted to them? do they think they’re entitled to being seen as attractive by everyone?