
There is a paradox here. Hard for a man or woman to get through the internet culture. Women keep finding toxic guys and guys keep finding toxic girls. Too easy to be toxic and trust breaks down. It becomes a jungle and hard to find someone normal when using the convenience of the internet. The key is to instead put time and energy to real life communities and get to know people over time in real life. It is harder to do now due to the internet but it’s far better.