Ask Women on Sidechat | Do I have feelings for him if I can’t stop thinking about him, get jealous of whatever he is doing because he’s not choosing me, I’m constantly checking my phone to see if he responded and I’ll be sad if I don’t see his text when I wake up. He is my bsf.

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Ask Women 17h

Do I have feelings for him if I can’t stop thinking about him, get jealous of whatever he is doing because he’s not choosing me, I’m constantly checking my phone to see if he responded and I’ll be sad if I don’t see his text when I wake up. He is my bsf.

Anonymous 17h

whatever it is, it’s unhealthy

Anonymous 17h

try to focus on yourself more and turn that effort and thought onto yourself. remember the facts of the situation and how little he seems to put effort and thought into you. he’s not worth the energy. i’m sorry that’s happening, that sucks. try to direct that energy elsewhere and remember the situation

Anonymous

#1 17h

How do I make it stop

Anonymous

#2 16h

But I also know that he has feelings for me…

Anonymous

OP 16h

how do you know that? how had he shown that?

Anonymous

#2 16h

He said I like you and want to date

Anonymous

OP 15h

why didn’t you say yes then

Anonymous

OP 15h

so are the feelings you’re experiencing anxious attachment or has he not been fully putting enough effort in?

Anonymous

#2 15h

He been putting a lot of effort but he is solo travelling rn so sometimes he doesn’t have service, but ik he cares a lot about me and really loves me for who I am