
bro to be honest, fuck this ask, women can kick rocks, I’ve known men young and old who are incredibly emotionally intelligent because they’re sold this idea that it’s more important than or just as important as something like earning potential when it isn’t at all. This is not something that women worry about unless you’re broke or they’ve gotten used to the life style you’ve given them.
I want someone who’s able to handle his own emotions in a way that isn’t negative. Everyone is allowed to have bad days ofc, that’s part of life. But the burden of making you feel better should not be on me. You should also be able to control yourself and not make everyone feel upset with you.
I have went on dates with hundreds of women and have repeatedly found myself in situations where a woman can’t identify, refuses to, or is disingenuous about her emotions. Emotional intelligence does not lead to less emotional deception, if anything, it can lead to more disadvantages for people who are agreeable psychology and want to b better.