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When you ask for an emotionally intelligent man, what *exactly* do you mean and what are you looking for. I feel that I can intelligently/abstractly understand emotions and I have a handle on my own, but I'm unsure that is exactly what is being asked for.
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Anonymous 2w

I think one of the biggest things is someone who can understand when they’ve done something hurtful/wrong without needing to have it explained to them in detail every single time. Also somebody who communicates emotions openly and can learn from their mistakes

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Anonymous 2w

Someone who values open communication and knows how to describe their own thoughts, opinions, and emotions respectfully & honestly. Someone who can read the room and react to other people’s emotions with a level head

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Anonymous 2w

bro to be honest, fuck this ask, women can kick rocks, I’ve known men young and old who are incredibly emotionally intelligent because they’re sold this idea that it’s more important than or just as important as something like earning potential when it isn’t at all. This is not something that women worry about unless you’re broke or they’ve gotten used to the life style you’ve given them.

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Anonymous 2w

Hmm 😏

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Anonymous 2w

I want someone who’s able to handle his own emotions in a way that isn’t negative. Everyone is allowed to have bad days ofc, that’s part of life. But the burden of making you feel better should not be on me. You should also be able to control yourself and not make everyone feel upset with you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I have went on dates with hundreds of women and have repeatedly found myself in situations where a woman can’t identify, refuses to, or is disingenuous about her emotions. Emotional intelligence does not lead to less emotional deception, if anything, it can lead to more disadvantages for people who are agreeable psychology and want to b better.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

downvote all you want but not one of you women will come in my DMs and tell me how I’m wrong, yall just mad we see through ur bullshit now

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

You just want DMs

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

Oop this is strawberry btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

I don’t need DMs yall just can’t do nothing but hate without intelligence

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