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how do i go about asking the guy i’ve been seeing to hang out? or should i wait for him to ask? i’ll put the background of the situation in comments lol
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Anonymous 30w

ok so it’s been just about a month of us going on dates, one a week making it a total of 4 now. we had sex for the first time after the 4th date which is not something i typically do and now im kind of freaking out lol. i usually wait until im official with a guy for that kind of thing so this is very uncharted territory for me.

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Anonymous 30w

Who's been initiating the whole time?

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Anonymous 30w

Literally, just ask. He’s a human and evidently he likes you!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 30w

we both have expressed that we really like each other and all that but he’s not a great texter which makes me doubt things sometimes. i feel like seeing him more often would help so i figured i would ask but im also nervous to do that LOL

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 30w

him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 30w

Maybe you should this time. Ask if he's free the day you want to hang and go from there

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