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ok quick question how do you go on a date with someone you strictly only know from social media? i also need to know how to get out the fear of thinking m*n only want to be with me for sexual reasons & not to date. #ineedhelp
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Anonymous 23h

Well I’d assume you talk to them for a while before ever going on a date, no? And you’re allowed boundaries you can say no to any sexual encounter they try to throw at you and personally exit yourself if you feel uncomfortable

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Anonymous 1d

what do you mean how? just meet them irl. if they haven’t brought it up you can. as for getting over that fear, still keep it in the back of ur mind but assure yourself that you are worthy of being taken seriously and remind yourself that there really are men out there who want relationships and will value you you for more than sex

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 23h

i’ve tried meeting them but the vibes be completely different from over the phone, maybe because i’m shy but it’s like hard to explain

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

they be wanting to see me after the first conversation, then they decide not to talk to me because i don’t want to see them after one week of talking ??? i don’t get it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

You just move onto the next then it’s okay to not have the same idea of how long you should be talking before meeting. I met my bf after talking for a week. We took one date and have been hanging out ever since

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