Depends on how accepting she is. My partner an I have a great sex life and part of that is based on honesty and vulnerability, even if one of us didn’t want to do something we’d never judge the other person for asking or being curious. It’s called intimacy because it’s intimate. Also being pegged doesn’t make you less of a man it just means you are interested in trying a new thing.

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Is it embarrassing to ask, or is it also the fear that she might have a bad reaction? If it’s just embarrassing you can hint, or buy a strap, or write it down. If she might actually be angry you have to be a lot more delicate

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