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Ask Women 14w
WOMEN, I need advice on a POS man: he lied and gaslighted constantly, cheated, and got someone else pregnant. Should I blast? Or keep it private?
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BLAST THAT BITCH!!
Move on & Heal, Sis.
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Anonymous 14w

Do whatever you want but make it more of a one and done rather than dwelling on it if you want to blast

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Anonymous 14w

Dude literally focus on you. Get healthy, get a new fit, new makeup, new bed sheets. Listen to new music. You’re gonna heal and Karma will do your dirty work FOR you. Trust me sis.

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Anonymous 14w

Reading this, I’m realizing how much of that my ex did. I’m still kind to him. Maybe I should have gotten more revenge when the timing was right

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Anonymous 14w

There’s ways to warn others about him without him knowing. The Tea App, online groups, a site called namehim.io. If you use namehim.io, you can report “emotional abuse” because that’s what cheating and gaslighting are.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

I feel I should just post bc i keep dwelling on it bc all i did was blow his phone up talking shit which i mean he don’t care anyways so it was really just me lowkey crashing out without fully c/o.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

If you feel like he might hurt other people blast... But you could keep it "close " not secret and if he gets another girl try to warn her ... By being honest if people ask ... Be aware society loves to cancel women for blasting and canceling people

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

exactly…pretty sure they gon call me all kinds of bitches and hoes

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

apparently the tea app was cancelled i thought?? I was never really able to get into it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

see i don’t want to regret not saying anything bc at some point out will be too late

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

It was taken off the app store. They’re going through legal battles to keep existing. Meanwhile the p0rn site with millions of views on their unconscious spousal 🍇 section is still up. I hate our pedo-run society.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

literally. too many dogs ass men being called out, you know the patriarchy can’t have that!

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Anonymous replying to -> thiccpancake47 14w

you’re so right, thank you sis 💕 🥺🫶🏽

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

You’ll be okayyyyy baby. I’m so so sorry you’re going thru this tho!!! I HATED THIS MAN, Lile I wanted his ass dead, now I’m totally fine lmao!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Never too late to share your story. Only the petty things have a time limit. Stuff like putting Nair in his shampoo. Don’t be doing that decades later

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Anonymous replying to -> thiccpancake47 14w

I feel you!! Time does heal all!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

right

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