Anonymous #1 2w

welp college hit so it just wasn’t the time pls tell me if im being delusional or if its valid feelings

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Anonymous OP 2w

if you say you feel it that deeply then i believe you, it's not my place to call you delusional for it. how long were you seeing each other?

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Anonymous #1 2w

from april til august but i’ve known him for four years now and we were best friends

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Anonymous OP 2w

four years is a long time, I trust your feelings after that long. if you really feel that way, and it doesn't start to fade after some time meeting new people and having new experiences at school, you should tell him that. but you should give yourself some time to see if that happens, and some space to see if it clears your head. do you have any idea if he still feels similarly about you?

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Anonymous #1 2w

i have no clue like we talk and joke around sometimes still but i really can’t tell if he even still thinks abt me in that way or not

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Anonymous OP 2w

that's a really hard situation to be in, trust me I know how it feels. I think your best move right now would be to try to chill a little (to the best of your abilities), focus on school, make new friends, all that college stuff. if it's been another few months and you miss him exactly as much, you reach out and say hey just so you know, i still feel this way, etc. etc. and give him a chance to respond. there's also the chance that he could reach out to you at any point too.

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Anonymous #1 2w

ok ok it’s been like three months alr idk how short is too short before if i were to reach out

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Anonymous OP 2w

that's a decent chunk of time. i won't tell you not to reach out but you have to be ready for it to give you no closure if he doesn't reply.

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Anonymous #1 2w

yea ik me and him lowkey text like a bit rn so idk when th right time even do say anything would be

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Anonymous OP 2w

that makes it harder for sure. you might have to sort of wait for an opportunity to present itself. him mentioning something from the past, maybe.

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