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Women, what specifically makes you attracted to men? I’m talking about outside of instinctual attraction, though you can mention that too.
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Anonymous 2w

Honestly I find nothing specifically physically attractive about men. I like looking at pretty one’s faces ig. Once I get to know a guy though, personality and intimacy will make their features appeal to me (I’m not 100% sure I’m attracted to men but I have bf I have a good sex life with so I guess I am 😭)

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Anonymous 2w

Intelligence, good manners, humility, seems genuinely interested in other people, kindness

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Anonymous 2w

Personality above anything else. If you have a beautiful personality, you become more attractive to me. Communication, being funny, softening up for me, honesty- all of that stuff is great. Find ways of displaying your hobbies and including her in it. It means a lot

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Anonymous 2w

i'm straight

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Anonymous 2w

What is instinctual attraction 😭

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Anonymous 2w

Intelligence, sarcasm, humor and confidence. I have a weakness for dark eyes and a nice smile.

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Anonymous 2w

Constancy

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Anonymous 2w

Kinda boxy eye shape, higher voice, empathy, intelligence, integrity, imagination

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Like a straight woman eyeing a dude with visible abs, stuff you do unconsciously to people you’re attracted too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Oh you mean physical appearance? Aside from that I prefer a nice personality and progressive political views. Not really into muscles

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I really couldn’t care less about some random dude with visible abs

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

This is pretty much exactly how I feel

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Yeah this is it. Like I think all of the men I’ve ever even had crushes on I wouldn’t have been attracted to if I didn’t know or like their personality first. The attraction develops. I’ve never had a crush on someone I find straight up ugly but I feel I’m pretty neutral on most men’s looks to some extent or another and it’s the personality/style that actually makes me attracted to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I could even say the same about my now ex that I was actually obsessed with and could never get enough of

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

For me it’s exactly that, like I can see a guy and he can be very handsome but if I don’t know anything about his character then my attitude towards him doesn’t ever progress beyond “oh he’s cute”

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Anonymous replying to -> sour_pickle 2w

Thank you melted one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I gotchu (an it’s the boiled one😂)

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