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Am I supposed to be excited for a first date? Or is it normal that I kinda wanna cancel…
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Anonymous 1w

i think it is normal, but it all depends on your dating experience

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Anonymous 1w

Nah. That’s fair.

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Anonymous 1w

It depends on why, I have before kinda wanted to cancel and then had a nice time, I’ve also had times I was excited and it went poorly, it just kinda depends on

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Anonymous 1w

Not normal

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Anonymous 1w

normal for me but I hate social interaction soooo

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Anonymous 1w

totally normal, i feel scared af until i’m actually w them and i get comfortable and it gets better !

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Lowkey same 🫣I’ve only ever enjoyed a date if we were friends first so I feel like I’m cooked

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Well maybe on the date take it as trying to become friends with maybe a little flavor of the more romantic stuff when it feels right?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

It’s already too romantic for me so I think I’m gonna cancel 😭😭idk why it makes me cringe

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Update I cancelled 😳

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