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Best methods to approach someone and keep a good conversation going if you’re not good looking? I wanna work on talking to people at bars but I’m not really attractive and I’m also awkward. What are some good conversation points to use?
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Anonymous 2w

length of conversation has nothing to do with attractiveness, it's about confidence and communication skills

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Anonymous 2w

if you get any lmk too

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I struggle with confidence due to my attractiveness

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

well as long as you keep up with hygiene and put effort into your appearance there's nothing else you can do, don't be ashamed of your face or body or whatever as it's yours and you should be proud to be you. not everything is about looks and it's likely that what you find ugly is what someone else wishes they had. it's never that easy but wallowing in it isn't going to do anything either

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

It’s all in my face that im not confident with

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

well again there's nothing you can do unless you want to pay $$$ to possibly mess it up. try changing your hair, use a skin care routine, etc. when you're 80 do you want to look back and wish you'd made more friends but never did because of your face or look back and love that you made the most out of it despite your insecurities

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I try but I get too nervous to do it

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