Ask Women on Sidechat | Does anyone else get super anxious whenever they meet a genuinely nice guy, like you’re just waiting for the other shoe to drop? Coz the longer it takes the more it’ll hurt if it turns out to all be performative, like there’s no way it’s real this time?

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Ask Women 13h

Does anyone else get super anxious whenever they meet a genuinely nice guy, like you’re just waiting for the other shoe to drop? Coz the longer it takes the more it’ll hurt if it turns out to all be performative, like there’s no way it’s real this time?

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Anonymous 11h

Honestly? Yes sometimes romantically it can feel that way. I have so many wonderful male friends around me but in a romantic sense I do understand where you’re coming from.

Anonymous 9h

Yes bc it’s too good to be true they always screw you over

Anonymous

#2 5h

I’m not a woman but my mom has warned me not to be overly friendly or nice especially to people I don’t know well for this very reason.

Anonymous

#2 5h

Not sure if this post means romantically or in general, but I’ve postponed dating until grad school.