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Ladies, how do you like to be approached at a bar? Asking for an unattractive looking man but he’s a good man
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Anonymous 10w

Some of us are only there to drink and maybe socialize with friends so please don’t get upset with anyone if they give an immediate no

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Anonymous 10w

Please don’t interrupt me if I’m having a conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

And what if it’s a long conversation?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

It’s still courteous not to interrupt. That goes for any interaction not just approaching women in bars

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

True, true. Any other advice?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I like to have a conversation before flirting starts. Like I want to get to know the person first. I don’t mind small talk. Though this is just for me of course. All women are different

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

But looks matter all the way or just the right place right time?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I don’t care about looks. I care about if you’re fun to talk to and a nice person

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Understood. Thank you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Fair, fair. What if he is shy and awkward?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

That’s fine as long as he’s respectful

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