Ask Women on Sidechat | I don’t know whether or not I’m overthinking this or overreacting and it seems like ppl I’ve talked to about this have said the same thing (that it was a little odd) But I’ve noticed some strange behavior from my best friends husband over the years.

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Ask Women 2w

I don’t know whether or not I’m overthinking this or overreacting and it seems like ppl I’ve talked to about this have said the same thing (that it was a little odd) But I’ve noticed some strange behavior from my best friends husband over the years.

Anonymous 2w

Even before they got married. The first thing that I thought was weird was that he told her that he wanted to get closer to me and when she asked him why he didn’t want to get closer to her other friends he said it was because me and her are really close and I’m the only she mainly talks to. He’s also made comments on her appearance and told her that he wanted her to be a little bit bigger like me and another girl we use to be friends with (1).

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OP 2w

And if she didn’t end up liking it she could just lose the weight like it’s that easy. I brought it up to her again awhile later and she said he didn’t mean it like that and that he meant it as in he wanted her to eat more because she stopped eating a lot. I’ve noticed many times when she would visit me at work that he would be very talkative and energetic around me but different around her at times like less talkative and at her wedding he seemed super off and distant from her (2).

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OP 2w

But was super talkative and energetic towards me when I walked up to them while they were sitting down and when I was walking down the isle because I was her maid of honor I didn’t like the way he was looking at me and the way his eyes lingered on me a bit too long and towards the end when everyone had left and they were still there and the other groomsmen they were all dancing outside and when I stepped out to find my friend he immediately walked away from her and sat down (3)x

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OP 2w

And looked directly at me and we made eye contact. Idk my friend noticed this but when I made a comment abt my feet hurting she said I was free to leave and when we both left to take pictures she grabbed my phone and handed it back to me in a sassy way and looked me up and down with an irritated expression on her face she was getting a bad headache so it could’ve been that but yeah I need to know other ppls thoughts on this o and if I’m overthinking it.