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Found out that the girl I have a crush on is a stripper after our first date. What’s the best way to be respectful to her?
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Anonymous 15h

Just treat her like a woman. If that’s too complicated, you shouldn’t have a date at all

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Anonymous 15h

If you plan on continuing to date her, get to know her and treat her like a normal woman, strippers are people too!

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Anonymous 15h

Is that a dealbreaker for you?

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Anonymous 12h

Everyone already covered it, but if it were me I’d want you to treat it like it’s normal. If you talk about it like it’s taboo I’d feel judged. Idk, maybe she’s different, but try to be as casual as you can

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Anonymous 14h

Do strippers engage in sexual activity with other men?

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Anonymous 12h

You go to her job and suprise her

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

No

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

Yes thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

Ofc

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Also it’s likely that her parents and family don’t know, talk to her about it if she’s comfortable. And don’t tell anyone unless she tell you to

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

I’m not telling anyone, it would be highly disrespectful

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14h

No most they do usually is give lap dances to men

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

That’s a sexual activity bro 😄

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14h

guys are not even allowed to touch during a dance

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

I’m not worried about that. But she does pole dancing too

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12h

She agreed to a 2nd date already. My goal is to be respectful and make her feel comfortable and not a problem at all

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Good. Probably sounds weird to hear from an internet stranger, but I’m proud of you. Good luck

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 11h

Thanks sm!

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