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Found out that the girl I have a crush on is a stripper after our first date. What’s the best way to be respectful to her?
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Anonymous 9w

Just treat her like a woman. If that’s too complicated, you shouldn’t have a date at all

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Anonymous 9w

If you plan on continuing to date her, get to know her and treat her like a normal woman, strippers are people too!

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Anonymous 9w

I don’t really have anything to add, everyone covered it. But I just wanted to say it’s great that you are willing to learn and be respectful while dating her

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Anonymous 8w

I appreciate you making the effort to be respectful to her instead of shaming her

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Anonymous 9w

Everyone already covered it, but if it were me I’d want you to treat it like it’s normal. If you talk about it like it’s taboo I’d feel judged. Idk, maybe she’s different, but try to be as casual as you can

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Anonymous 9w

Is that a dealbreaker for you?

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Anonymous 8w

Good luck on your second date!

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Anonymous 8w

Honestly, we love a woman confident in her sexuality, also she’s prolly got more money than all of us so who are we to hate

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Anonymous 9w

Do strippers engage in sexual activity with other men?

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Anonymous 6w

I personally wouldn’t. That’s j a shameful career to pursue

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

No

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Yes thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Ofc

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Also it’s likely that her parents and family don’t know, talk to her about it if she’s comfortable. And don’t tell anyone unless she tell you to

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

I’m not telling anyone, it would be highly disrespectful

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

No most they do usually is give lap dances to men

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

That’s a sexual activity bro 😄

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

guys are not even allowed to touch during a dance

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

I’m not worried about that. But she does pole dancing too

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

She agreed to a 2nd date already. My goal is to be respectful and make her feel comfortable and not a problem at all

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Good. Probably sounds weird to hear from an internet stranger, but I’m proud of you. Good luck

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

Thanks sm!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

why not?

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Anonymous replying to -> monkemonkemonke 9w

Bc I don’t feel insecure

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9w

Thank you! she is amazing!

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 8w

Thanks sm! I’m hoping for a good second date!

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 8w

Thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Congratulations man! Hope u have a good date! Have you gotten any dances from her?

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

No I’m not interested in that now, I’m focused on getting to know her and dating her. But I watched her pole dancing and she is very talented!

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 8w

Not hating or judging, she’s very confident and very talented too!

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