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My gf doesn’t like sex. We’ve been dating for over 6 months. Physical intimacy is very important to me. At the beginning of our relationship we would have more intimate moments now it’s dry. When I ask her she doesn’t know why. What should I do?
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Anonymous 3w

I say you really need to go heavy on the foreplay, and also just communicate with her on what she likes and what not. She may just not have as high a libido

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Anonymous 3w

How are you trying to initiate intimacy? In general, men and women have spontaneous and responsive arousal, and different people have different needs when it comes to intimacy. She could be more responsive, so you’ll need to build up her desire throughout the day or even week. While you might have spontaneous arousal and be ready to go whenever, she might need longer foreplay, things throughout the day to get her excited, or have specific turn ons

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Anonymous 3w

Is she asexual?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Yes I’ve heard this before thank you for responding. I really really do try and have tired everything. I think she might just be losing interest. Not sure what to do anymore.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

No idea

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