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A guy asked me to dinner and then we texted but he never said anything about dinner again. I asked and he said his day will be mentally exhausting and it’s not fair to me if we go to dinner tonight. I can’t decide if he’s being sweet or a dick please lmk
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Anonymous 5d

Sweet bc he wants to give you the attention you deserve and not his irritated version

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Anonymous 5d

I think it's considerate, not fun to go to dinner if he won't have fun

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Anonymous 5d

I could see it going either way. Let him know you hope he feels better and that HE can plan dinner by next week once he knows he’s feeling better. If he doesn’t then you’ll know he’s not that into you and was just politely letting you down. If he does then you’ll know he is into you and was politely making sure he could fully focus on you.

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