Ask Women on Sidechat | Guys…. I’m waiting til marriage but like everyday i question it because i want a someone but men just want too hook up or have sex after a while… I need your opinion like what do I do, where do I go?

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Ask Women 1d

Guys…. I’m waiting til marriage but like everyday i question it because i want a someone but men just want too hook up or have sex after a while… I need your opinion like what do I do, where do I go?

Anonymous 1d

Like I’m waiting and I want a relationship but I want a man to be okay with it but I’m basically asking for a unicorn atp

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Anonymous 1d

if you feel strongly about it then stick with it. but to be completely real, it does limit your dating pool by a lot. it will get rid of the guys who are just looking to hookup but it will also get rid of the nice respectful guys that want a healthy relationship that includes sex. sex is an important part of a relationship for a lot of people and it doesn’t mean that the romantic/ emotional parts are any less important.

Anonymous 12h

I don’t do casual sex. But I’m not gonna buy a horse without riding it either. 🤷‍♀️ I don’t want multiple marriages and physical intimacy is a huge part of a relationship. I want to know if he can make me cum, and are we compatible with what we want from the bedroom.

Anonymous 1d

Don’t put aside your boundaries girl! If that’s what you want then that’s it. Don’t change that to make anyone else feel better

Anonymous 1d

like you don’t know if you wanna wait? or you don’t know if you want a relationship because of it?

Anonymous 1d

This is an odd intersection of actually “needing” someone who’s actually actively part of church and religion. Or you’re going to have to be REALLY accommodating in other ways…😅

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Anonymous

#1 1d

either way you really do have to follow your heart and what feels best for you. waiting until marriage is never something that i’ve understood but that’s just me. you gotta decide stuff like this for yourself there is no “wrong” choice

Anonymous

#5 12h

What I like doesn’t allow for lazy guys in the bedroom but I have met lazy men and the ones who get really turned on by low or no experience tend to be the laziest so just be aware and figure out ways to recognize the guy that absolutely does not care whether you’d enjoy yourself and isn’t willing to put in the work to make sure you do, because if you’re married and stuck with that dude you’re sol.

Anonymous

#5 11h

(Met as in talked with) and I promise you they do not care and some of them even get off on purposefully not pleasuring their partner. It’s gross but they’re out there. They also apparently get off on being shamed for being gross humans that don’t care about someone enjoying their time with them (that I know from experience 🤢)