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What should i tell my anxious/avoidant attachment girlfriend if I want boundaries that won’t harm her feelings?
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Anonymous 3d

ensure that you give her lots of reassurance

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Anonymous replying to -> yakittyyik 3d

So i give her enough reassurance but she tells me that she doesn’t need it too much

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

yes but if you're discussing boundaries w her, you'll want to ensure you're reassuring her during that conversation itself

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Anonymous replying to -> yakittyyik 3d

I see. What if she try’s to state a deep question about the situation? I’ve noticed she does this when we need to chat and when i need to do something off the phone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

type of conversation best suited when you have time available / in person

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