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Does anyone understand the difference between a crush on someone and a friend crush? I feel like they’re the same to me or maybe I’ve just never had a friend crush
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Anonymous 9w

Friend crush -> I wanna spend all my time with them and get to know them and celebrate each others wins and help them through life’s disappointments Crush -> ^ same as above except with the addition of “I would love to be naked with them 😶‍🌫️”

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Anonymous 9w

I think friend crush is like a more joking term? like wow I met her and she seems so cool, I want to be her friend. it's not like an actual crush. that's my experience with it at least

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Anonymous 9w

So like I meet girl and we get along and have good convo. She’s cute and She compliment me and I enjoy compliment/like being around her. At the same time I have girlfriend and new girl doesn’t make me want to break up nor do I want to date her. Is that a crush or a friend crush?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Not always. Romance doesn’t always equal being naked and having sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

I’m assuming this person isn’t aro or ace. And is simply a allistic person, in which case sex and romance would be intertwined

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

if her physical appearance plays any role, it's a crush

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

What if I don’t know if it does?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

first thing you said was that she's cute so it sounds like you do know...

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Cute doesn’t automatically mean it’s a romantic thing… I think my baby sister is cute but I can promise you I don’t have a crush on her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

okay but I would never describe a platonic friend as cute. and I'm assuming this person isn't your relative.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I’ve described platonic friends as cute. Just something that doesn’t rly feel like it has to be a romantic title

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

¯\_(ツ)_/¯ if someone asked me why I wanted to be friends with someone, never in a million years would my first listed reason be that they're cute

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

That’s not the reason tho, just mentioned it not as the reason I wanna be friends

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