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Have you ever hooked up with a man who said he was too big for condoms, but after actually meeting him, you learned he was not in fact “too big” for condoms? Skip if you’re a guy
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Only once
A few times
Multiple times
Never
I’ve never had sex with a man
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Anonymous 2w

There’s no such thing as too big for condoms even if you actually are big, they make sizes for that

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Anonymous 2w

Helll no I stay far clear from those kinds of men, my bf is a condom every time person and the one time it broke he comforted me, and immediately ran out and bought me plan b

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Anonymous 2w

No but with women yeah and they were too big so we had to find bigger ones

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Anonymous 1w

there needs to be an option for “i would ghost anyone who says this in the first place”

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Anonymous 2w

Said this on a post here already but my friend's ex used to tell her he was allergic to latex so she wouldn't make him wear a condom. When she found out he was lying she dumped him, luckily before any accidental kids happened. Please don’t lie about these things, it’s a health risk for STDs and the like

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

You actually can be too big. Even with the largest sizes, they still have a cap. It usually isn’t an issue if you’re really long, but it is an issue if you’re wide.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Wild stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Why am I getting downvoted, this is from lived experience 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I’m not fucking anyone raw, since I don’t want to catch something or make a child, but I am TELLING you. They can be too tight. That’s mostly because I’m a statistical outlier though.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

aren’t lamb skin condoms a thing? like latex free?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Yup. But he would refuse to try anything else and she believed him because she loved him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

yeah that’s crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Yikes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

“Lived experience” but “condoms go up to a certain size”. Ppl have shown videos of them filling up condoms like water balloons but a condom was “too small for you” okay bud you’re not an outlier

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

Do I have to explain physics and anatomy to you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

Dicks are not water. They are not as heavy as water and they do not have nerves. Plus, with your logic, condoms would only come in one size. Are you starting to see the problem here?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You’re not that guy bro. “My dick is so large bro condoms can’t fit”. Yet a porn star with a guaranteed dick much bigger than yours can still wear em. Okay big shot

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

If we’re going off of this, I have the average performers length and I have significantly more girth than the average performer. Why do you think you know my dick better than I do?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

that is such bull. there is no such thing as too large for a condom. if you don’t believe me, ask your doctor.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

you can not like the feeling of wearing a condom, but that doesn’t mean it’s too small for you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Why tf do you think they sell different sized condoms? Just for fun?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Then go buy the right size man 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

This is the last time I am going to repeat this. I need a condom with a nominal width of 76mm to accommodate my girth. The largest one I could find has a nominal width of 64mm, it’s what I’ve been using for the past few years. You’re going to have to google what nominal width means because I’m fucking tired of having people that don’t have my girth and likely don’t even have a dick tell me that I’m lying about how condoms fit on me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

We explained to you what nominal width is the last time and they still stretch to your width. Nominal width is for flat things. It’s what lumberjacks and construction uses for the standard size. You are not big enough to not wear a condom. If you think you are so bad you need to see a doctor

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

they sell different sizes for (1) marketing to people who buy the same nonsense you do and will pay more to be obstinant or (2) comfort, even though a normal-sized condom will not break or harm you. i’m a grad student with an engineering degree, i understand how latex behaves, and you’re mistaken. that’s why i’m imploring you to go talk to your doctor who can look at your dick and give you the most apt professional medical opinion of what you should be doing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

also you won’t need to worry about having sex with this awful attitude unless the people you’re trying to have sex with are too impaired to give informed and enthusiastic consent anyway.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

I can’t tell if you are uninformed or just stupid. Look at the rings on each of the condoms. They are designed to have a firm grip at the base of the penis. But what’s this? The rings are different sizes 🤔 That’s because all men don’t have the same girth. Sure, you technically could put condom 1 on someone that needs condom 3, but it would be uncomfortable or even painful. For a condom to fit properly, the ring must match the girth of the penis.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

I have an attitude because I am telling you facts, and instead of listening or even doing your own research, you just assume you know more than me, someone who has actually spent time looking into it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

close but no. the roll of rubber can also stretch, and it may be uncomfortable but would not be painful. people safely voluntarily use cock rings. you’re either making up the pain aspect of this entirely, not using enough lube, or have a problem unrelated to your size for which you need. to ask. your doctor.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

you’re also self-reporting having a chode so short there is almost as much rolled up as when it’s laid flat in the photo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

you have an attitude because you used a forum meant for educating men on women’s issues for a weird question that could only be to satisfy a self-aggrandizing fantasy, and you’re sore you’re not picking up chicks based solely on the alleged girth of your dick. let’s call a spade a spade.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

You’re so fucking stupid. Actually look into it instead of trying to lecture me on something you don’t know about. Trying to talk to a person with their head this far up their own ass is a waste of time. I have no idea why you somehow think you understand a body that you do not have. This would be like if I started arguing with you about what having a period feels like. This is fucking ridiculous.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Are you some mysizepro salesman that just wants an excuse to sell those products bc you’re so proud to be wrong so you can continue to post about those specific condoms as if you can’t find any condoms available anywhere else

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

I asked the question because I was curious, and the 64 people that voted didn’t seem to mind. This whole argument started because someone said all people can fit in condoms (for a condom to fit, it needs to be comfortable) and I just said that’s not true once you reach a certain range. Instead of just acknowledging what I said which was based off of research and my own lived experience, I’ve just been insulted and called a liar by people that don’t even wear condoms.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

you don’t need to have cancer to be an oncologist? what you’re saying simply defies the laws of physics and has probably been parroted by insecure men who are not medical professionals. you failed to dispute any of my legitimate points and are just making attacks on me, so i can only presume i’m correct by guessing you either (1) haven’t personally experienced any actual pain from using a correctly applied and adequately lubed condom appropriately or […]

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

[…] (2) haven’t heard any of this from a licensed medical professional. i have heard firsthand from a licensed medical professional that it is impossible for a human man to have a penis large enough that wearing a condom correctly will harm him due only to his size or cause anything more than moderate discomfort unless he has an underlying medical issue.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Saying that having a tight rubber ring around your dick can be uncomfortable and sometimes hurt does not defy the laws of physics. Are you stupid?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

That’s because they sell the widest ones I can find

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

They literally make latex as stretchy as they do for condoms specifically for idiots like OP who think they won’t fit. OP simply sucks at math and has the brain of a goldfish. But it’s okay bc they make female condoms for guys like him so women are still protected from guys that are ignorant enough to not use protection. But he wouldn’t get a girl to know that so

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

saying having a ring of the specific elasticity and size of a commercially available condom around a human penis can cause actual pain and not just discomfort due only to the pressure defies the laws of physics, yes. although it sounds like you’ve never actually used a condom. the “ring” is the rolled up part. it gets smaller as you unroll it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

For you to wear a condom “correctly” it needs to fit correctly. Why is this a difficult concept for you to understand? I’m not saying I’m screaming in agony because of intense pain. I’m saying it is uncomfortable and it kinda hurts. Not a lot, but still.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I don’t think you’ve actually purchased condoms before bc the ring shrinks when it’s rolled up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

and what i’m telling you is that the actual pain component is most likely not enough lubrication rather than pressure, because people wear cock rings for that specific purpose with no pain

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

unfortunately female condoms are not as effective than male condoms. far better than nothing, though!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

I only felt a bit of pain with the trojans. The magnums and the condoms I use now are still uncomfortable. As someone who (allegedly) has some understanding a physics, I’m sure you are familiar with newton’s third law. When it comes to condoms, that means the amount of pressure and tightness you feel is directly correlated with the difference in size between the condom and the penis. That means if the condom ring is too small, you will feel discomfort. A condom only “fits” if it is comfortable.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

newton’s third law is a great example, because the human penis is not 100% rigid and is therefore exerting very little force on the body ‘restricting’ it. you can also proportionally compare it to the greater force, that of a cock ring, which does not cause pain. you’re moving the goalposts. i have said discomfort is normal this entire time and a small price to pay for being able to have sex without catching an std or making someone pregnant.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

For a condom to fit properly it needs to feel comfortable. That means if a condom is too causes discomfort because the ring is too tight, that condom is too small for you, or in other words you are too big for the condom. That is why I said you can be too big, because “fit” isn’t just about being able to put it on, but also about it being comfortable. I wear condoms every time I have sex, but they are uncomfortable and often lead to me feeling numb.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

That means they’re too small for me, which also means I am too big for them. That has been my point the entire time. If you can put on a shirt that’s 2 sizes too small, it doesn’t mean it suddenly fits, you’re just able to wear it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I don’t understand what part of what I am saying is difficult for you to comprehend.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Ikr! Sadly they aren’t that great and I still have like 1 I never used. But it’s better than nothing with STI prevention

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