Anonymous #1 2w

?????

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Anonymous #2 2w

Do you know how many women walk by m me each day without looking at me? Quite a lot do. Genuine question for you, how am I supposed to tell which ones are and are not interested in me?

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Anonymous #4 2w

Talking is different and very not insane, however she said "but we don't dare look in their face and look straight ahead" which you are delusional if you think a guy is going to catch on to a "hint" like that.

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Anonymous OP 2w

find one youre interested in and go up to her. make conversation with people around you. women are not going to approach you.

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Anonymous #4 2w

In fact she specifically said in her post that it was "without talking"

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Anonymous OP 2w

Nope it’s not. Like I said a guy has done that to me

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Anonymous #4 2w

Ppl do that all the time. That’s the oldest trick in the book and idk how you haven’t noticed that and everyone knows that ppl tend to just get close to ppl they like without talking hoping they get the hint and you don’t

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Anonymous OP 2w

I block people who post annoying/bait stuff so me not being able to see it probably means the person is baiting replies fyi

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Anonymous #4 2w

That is not a hint. Honestly, how am I supposed to distinguish between the women around me who are and are not interested in me WITHOUT speaking to them and vice versa? Obviously many of the women who I spend a lot of time in proximity to are not interested so what should I assume if there is no difference?

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Anonymous #2 2w

I do approach women all the time, the confusion is in how the hell being near someone without looking at them or speaking to them is supposed to indicate attraction because EVERYONE does this wether or not they are attracted to someone.

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Anonymous OP 2w

You walk up and talk to them? Not everyone is going to approach first. She’s not gonna approach you. It would be weird if both of you did it but that’s not what this post is talking about

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Anonymous OP 2w

If they aren’t interested then they aren’t gonna act like they like you already. What they’re explaining is ppl doing that bc they’re nervous. If ppl are doing this to you and they aren’t interested then they simply just don’t wanna talk to you in which this post didn’t apply to your situation anyway. But if you’re confused just ask that said person

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Anonymous #4 2w

I do talk to women I'm interested in, but that's not the source of confusion. Is the purpose of a "hint" not to indicate to someone that you are interested? I'm just confused on how the hell this particular method of "hinting" is supposed to indicate anything to anyone, therefore making it functionally useless as a hint.

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Anonymous #4 2w

Intentionally not talking to me and not looking at me screams not interested, I just don't see how I am supposed to interpret it any other way.

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Anonymous OP 2w

Just ask. But yeah like I said if this happens and ppl aren’t interested you aren’t the demographic of ppl that women do this to. Ppl just don’t like you which if it’s obvious then it would be the point. Usually it’s never that obvious unless it’s clear they aren’t interested. You don’t apply to the post sadly

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Anonymous #4 2w

You still haven't explained how this is supposed to work as a hint, could you?

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Anonymous #4 2w

And I don't think it's that I am just not liked either because I can pick up on other less subtle hints such as finding jokes a little too funny, going out of their way to talk to me, or looking at me/focusing on me more than others in group settings, it is just this "hint" specially makes no sense to me.

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Anonymous OP 2w

Bc in your case it isn’t a hint. They simply just don’t like you

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Anonymous #4 2w

I think you’re confusing the post as if you relate to it. A lot of ppl can and it’s worked for them. You on the other hand are likely confused bc it’s just never happened to you. Which is fine a lot of women like to make it obvious. This post just isn’t about you nor is it for you. Ppl may just be the direct type in your area in which it shows bc they’re just not interested

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Anonymous #4 2w

Forget about me, how is it a hint for ANYONE. That is what I am trying to figure out

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Anonymous OP 2w

If you’re purposely trying to get someone’s attention by being close to them it’ll become obvious that you just like being in their presence that you want to be as close to them as possible until they finally talk to you

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Anonymous #4 2w

Nothing the OP said has anything to do with not talking at all so idk where you got that from. You still need to approach that the person that’s trying to do that. That’s the point #2 made. You still end up talking

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Anonymous #4 2w

? she quite literally said "without talking"

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Anonymous OP 2w

“To get them to notice them without talking”. Why are you this stupid. How does that mean not talk at all and how does everyone know this but you? You keep confusing yourself bc you just refuse to get it. BOTH genders do it. It literally just means you grab ppl’s attention without needing to use your voice or talk. What you’re describing is ppl just avoiding you

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Anonymous OP 2w

Literally every does this, both consciously and subconsciously

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