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i’m sorry but HOW are you guys having orgasms 😭
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Anonymous 3w

You’ve gotta be mentally into it too!! Let your body go and just feel what’s happening. Don’t stress yourself out over finishing either, that’ll kill your mood too

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Anonymous 3w

clit is SOOOO important for me genuinely but just experimenting is the way to go!! make sure you're relaxed and not stressed is important too, if im stressed out i cant cum at ALL

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Anonymous 3w

By getting eaten out

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Anonymous 3w

i found out that i could by finding a comic online explaining how to masturbate(like an actual educational comic not just some porn thing) but some people just dont orgasm and cant do it i say never give up, the longest its taken me to get there was 3hrs one time so, maybe for you it just takes a bit

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Anonymous 3w

Vib toys

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

…is there any way besides that or

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Have you tried a vibrator?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

where did you find the comic?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

its a website called "oh joy sex toy" they have a ton of comics on sex-ed stuff, some just fun stories, and overall just a lot of good comics that can help you understand basically anything they have a search bar, if you look up "masturbate" or "guide to masturbation"(the title) the correct comic should pop up its mostly helpful for getting started and being more aware of your body, but i feel like thats the first step to having an orgasm anyways!

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