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i genuinely hate hook up culture. i can’t stop thinking about the guy i met up and pregamed with, spent the night, and the entire next day with. said he’d text me. been waiting all week. still have his shirt too.
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Anonymous 4d

i think encounters like that have happened all through history, that's not just hookup culture lol

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Anonymous 4d

stop same!!! hooked up with a guy he kept asking for my snap so we could text and then he never texted (when i snapped him he left me on opened) like why try so hard to not do anything???

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Anonymous 4d

Honestly, he prob has a girl…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

well regardless it sucks. for either person if it’s a dynamic of one person who cares and one who couldn’t give less of a fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

LITERALLY!!! i had the same occurrence. spent the night w a guy, kept nagging me to hang again, eventually i got a little attached and now when i offer to hang he’s like “im too busy..” like bro

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

it’s so annoying!!! like don’t be saying crazy flirty stuff and then avoid talking to me 😭 and the worse part is i still want him so….

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

omgggg same like i don’t get why even do that. ur just hurting and leading someone on

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

EXACTLY!!! its so stupid, they genuinely don’t think

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

don't get me wrong, it still sucks, but personally it makes me feel a little better when I think about things that suck being a kind of universal human experience and not something exclusive to very recent history

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