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Why do women cry when they think youre cheating on them with other girls but get defensive and cold when you call her out for spending too much time with her ex?
12 upvotes, 7 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "Why do women cry when they think youre cheating on them with other girls but get defensive and cold when you call her out for spending too much time with her ex?"
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Anonymous 5w

That’s just a typical thing a cheater does. Cheaters are always thinking you are cheating on them too and will accuse you of things while they go behind your back

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Anonymous 5w

Well I wouldn’t know because I don’t do that and I’m not the whole of women

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Anonymous 5w

How would we know ask your ex. This isn’t a woman thing but just a guilty cheater thing. Both genders do this when they want to hide cheating allegations

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Anonymous 5w

Sounds like you got bad luck. There’s some evidence that people who get in one bad relationship are more likely to get more bad relationships in the future. Could just be luck, but if this keeps happening, it might be time to do some analysis.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 5w

A really good reminder is that people have a really hard time seeing outside of themselves and their own unique understanding of the world, so if someone is constantly accusing you or others of something it’s likely that they are doing it or thinking of it themselves

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 5w

This isn’t always true as the other option is trauma/severe anxiety about it, so if someone has been deeply betrayed and has trust issues then they might need consistent reassurance BUT that doesn’t make it okay for them to accuse you or force you to reveal things like going through your phone or anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

Setting firm boundaries is a good start. Confidence, integrity, and a bit of brutal honesty will tell the narcissists that you can’t be manipulated, and that will hopefully scare away the bad ones.

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