Ask Women on Sidechat | I still remember the time an ex said to me “holy shit ur so wet, that’s how bad you want me huh?” And I had to tell him that of course I’m wet, women are naturally wet… Ever heard of discharge too? And I’ll never forget the look of embarrassment he had

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I still remember the time an ex said to me “holy shit ur so wet, that’s how bad you want me huh?” And I had to tell him that of course I’m wet, women are naturally wet… Ever heard of discharge too? And I’ll never forget the look of embarrassment he had

Anonymous 4w

does being wet not generally correlate w desire? to each their own but this feels like standard dirty talk, what would you have wanted him to say?

Anonymous 4w

I think that sentence would've icked me out so bad and turned me off immediately

Anonymous 4w

lmao wow what a turn off

Anonymous 4w

haha youd be shocked! ive been completely and i mean completely bone dry down there before during a sexual encounter— im talking no discharge no nothing

Anonymous 4w

The same exact thing happened to me and I just didn’t say anything (I would have now)

Anonymous 3w

I have been caught off guard once, it was literally down to her knees, I didn’t say anything like that but I wanted to

Anonymous 4w

Now listen there’s discharge but you didn’t clean up before hand?

Anonymous

#4 4w

No it wasn’t dirty talk it was genuinely he believed it…

Anonymous

#5 4w

When it’s kinda spur of the moment I don’t typically make someone wait as I go clean myself up

Anonymous

OP 4w

Maybe you should girl. Cause saying that is crazy.

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Anonymous

#5 4w

To be fair he was like toxic and abusive and would force me to do stuff so I didn’t care at that point :3

Anonymous

OP 4w

Okay valid. Fuck him you should have said worse

Anonymous

#6 4w

Same.

Anonymous

OP 3w

wetness often stems from arousal i feel insane in these comments is dirty talk not dirty talk if you believe it

Anonymous

#5 3w

Uh you don’t have to clean up discharge. It’s supposed to be there and if I was doing that I’d be “cleaning myself up” all day

Anonymous

#2 3w

Like I’ve never heard of anyone feeling the need to clean up discharge or natural wetness

Anonymous

#2 3w

Well that’s wild, cause before you have sex with someone you just don’t make sure everything’s good to go? Nobody said anything about cleaning all day.

Anonymous

#5 3w

Why do you have to be dry before sex, and usually you don’t plan ok we’re going to have sex rn, it just happens

Anonymous

#4 3w

no im honestly w u on this one😭😭 saying “ur so wet” is like one of the most basic forms of dirty talk, whether she was wet from discharge or wet from arousal she was still wet and he couldnt tell the difference so he just said what most ppl would say

Anonymous

#2 3w

You don’t have to be dry but, but you should at least be clean. Discharge and being “wet” are two completely different things.

Anonymous

#5 3w

Are discharge and natural wetness not clean, it’s like calling having body hair dirty

Anonymous

#2 3w

Alrighty, well my personal preference is to not have a guy eat my discharge then. Body hair is different.

Anonymous

#5 3w

It’s literally just a clear fluid that mixes with arousal fluid and neither is more clean than the other, and guys can’t even tell the difference clearly

Anonymous

#2 3w

Everyone’s discharge is different

Anonymous

#6 3w

tbh i feel like she's grasping at straws lol... just say the actual shitty thing he did instead of fixating on random benign details

Anonymous

#5 3w

If it’s not mostly clear then that’s a sign of a problem, most peoples are basically clear to maybe a little milky looking and not much different than arousal fluid

Anonymous

#4 3w

i also feel bad for the guy?😭 like they know our kitties r naturally damp organs and he was just tryna spice up the mood w the most vanilla basic line ever and instead he got a “well actually…”. Like just go along w it girl😭

Anonymous

#7 3w

Okay that’s like idk that’s never happened to me

Anonymous

#6 3w

I’ve been dry before bc I was turned off, but normally when I’m just going abt my day it’s a little wet down there, it’s a natural thing for women like… having natural lubrication

Anonymous

#4 3w

Women are natural wet down there and there is a distinct difference between normal moisture and aroused wetness, being aroused makes it MUCH more wet than it normally is and it wasn’t really dirty talk it was more like that was his way of trying to get me to let him do stuff after I said no

Anonymous

#4 3w

The actual shitty thing he did was continue to touch me and try to use it as a way of convincing me I wanted it after me saying no multiple times so in that moment I stopped and said that because I REALLY didn’t want to and I was annoyed but in the end he would eventually overpower me

Anonymous

#5 3w

If ur discharge is constantly excessive that’s also a problem, but like if a lot comes out ofc I go like freshen myself up but it’s different when it’s normal moisture… like a vagina is basically a warm wet pocket of meat when u think abt it

Anonymous

#5 3w

I agree, if u know ur abt to have sex you should at least freshen up a bit but usually when it’s just spur of the moment that thought doesn’t typically cross the mind unless it’s REALLY bad down there

Anonymous

OP 3w

I should text her, she would literally drag me into her room when our whole friend group was at her house, or even when I told her no multiple times. She was probably the smartest hot girl I’ve ever been with, but she was so demanding, and she gave me an std. You know what, never mind.

Anonymous

#7 3w

Know your worth king