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How do I approach a woman irl? There’s so much conflicting info out there. One moment it’s “don’t approach at all” and the next it’s “only approach in bars and clubs and nothing else.” But I’m not in to bars and clubs! What do I do?
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Anonymous 10w

be gentle and friendly - honestly 96% of approaches don’t turn into the “creepy approaches” girls talk about most girls love compliments or being approached when done normally

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Anonymous 10w

Just be causal ,try not to startle her and try to come across as friendly:) but if your not into bars or clubs I would recommend finding groups online that meetup for your interest and connecting there:)

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Anonymous 10w

To be fair, a lot of it depends on your ability to read body language as well. It’s fine to approach but if you get the sense that she’s trying to end the convo fast, or purposefully avoiding eye contact then back off. It’s creepy if you’re being pushy not because you tried or approached.

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Anonymous 10w

Don’t do it bro it’s not worth it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

I would disagree. My boyfriend and I are happily in love because he talked to me

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