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Why is it when I communicate how I feel to men they stoop to disrespect
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Anonymous 6w

they don’t see you as a person

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Anonymous 6w

So then I said good night and took some time to myself (I have a 9-5 anyway). But then he accused me of playing games and cursed at me threatening to block me

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Anonymous 6w

Give more context and I can help like what does he say that is disrespectful

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

It’s happened so many times I don’t feel like a worthy person

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

please read Why Does He Do That

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Just cussed at me when I told him how I felt. He ignored me then texted me saying I was his friend after being mistreated by others. I felt used like he was only coming to me cause he needed something. He kept apologizing but I felt like it was to avoid confrontation instead of listening. Then he said “do we understand each other or will you keep talking over me and ignoring the question”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Excuse me fuck no leave that mf are you serious I was in deadass that same situation and he ended up being physically abusive eventually that’s like so degrading

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

I told him you’re doing me a favor. Bro acted like he’s a nice guy but nice people don’t brag about how nice they are. I’m sorry you were in that situation you’re worthy of love

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Same goes to you!! But seriously he showed you his true colors now fucking dump the paint and run fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

I’m feeling pretty worthless right now cause it’s pattern of the same guys like there is something wrong with me. Maybe I’ll die alone and never have love

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I understand that feeling but the second you give up on yourself is the second they win

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

You are deserving of that love and right now just might not be the moment you get it that’s okay but loving yourself comes first before any guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

I appreciate it. Just in a rut right now

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

It’s just really hard because truth be told I hate myself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I totally understand DM me if you need anything seriously!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Sounds like emotional abuse. Do you have close friends you can spend time with instead? Being around people who aren’t toxic was so refreshing for me when I was with my jerkface ex. One time I went to hang out with the woman he cheated with (she found out and told me), and I enjoyed her company much more than his. Actually felt much better after talking to her.

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