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How many guys have helped you climax during sex? How rare is it? My situationship and I stopped talking but I cant stop thinking about him because he was just…really good at sex. I know a lot of women fake it but how many actually get to experience it? I
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Anonymous 1d

Most of my partners have not been able to do that

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Anonymous 20h

Hi OP, was foreplay the main reason? I ask because often many just experience a ballon pop rather than a lasting intense experience. Happy for you :)

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Anonymous 19h

I’ve never been able to do it myself and no one’s ever been able to do it for me

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Anonymous 1d

Mm ok We’re both in college and he’s more experienced than I am, I get what you’re saying

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I’m sorry queen

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

Main reason for what exactly? Im slow lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

How you got your climax. Typically that happens during foreplay. Many just experience a ballon pop for pleasure and foreplay is argued to bring long intense pleasure.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

Ohh This is so TMI But he basically ate me out while using his fingers And other times it would be mid sex with added clit stimulation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Ah so he knows the button. You might like edge play but that makes sex into a drug and can be dangerous. This is why foreplay is the best way but takes time to learn and synch.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

So he like? Sexnotized me???😭 wdymm its a drug

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Sex has a primal bedrock of the senses. When someone is on edge of a cliff for example or senses a lion near by, their senses will be heightened for survival. People use that mechanism to heightened pleasure in sex. As they do this, it becomes a drug to them because they seek their senses to be sensitive and get a volcano explosion in pleasure.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

The button your boyfriend used on you is just the beginning because it’s an act to hit a sensitive area. When on edge, any area of the body becomes sensitive that gives more variety of options. Foreplay is better because it takes the drug out of the equation and it is real intimacy but won’t get the big volcano pleasure because that is a drug.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

Wait is it okay if I DM you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Sure :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3h

Some people just don’t have explosive orgasms and that’s okay. Some people need A LOT of extra care, patience, and toys. Ik it only works for my gf when we spend about 2 hours (at least 45 min foreplay) with toys and stimulation in multiple areas. It’s also SUPER IMPORTANT to not feel pressured to get that orgasm. Be relaxed and take deep breaths and if you’re really worried, maybe see a sexual health expert, they’re pretty cool

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