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Im a 27 year old man. Im doing everything in my power. I put myself out there doing the things I love. I live for myself. Everything that is good for me. But at the end of the day, night, I crave intimacy and I feel like utter shit. What is wrong w me?!
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Anonymous 23h

Do you have friends? I have never been in a relationship and I’m perfectly fine with that as I still have my support group. My friends are amazing and I’m super grateful to have them in my life

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Anonymous 1d

I write it here because while I know a woman isn’t the answer and it is on me to live and do better, I can’t help but feel like shit at nights. Nothing suffices. Nothing. Not even therapy can help me. Am I flawed? Am I just wrong? What the heck is wrong with me that I want someone of you so much just to feel lively in my own body?!!!

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Anonymous 1d

As a guy this is so real. What good is getting more out of life if you have nobody to share it with?

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Anonymous 17h

Look, I’ve been there bud, and I recommend finding some friends that will ease this. Typically, I come home to an empty apartment after work trips, which can be depressing, but I will visit family or host dinner parties while I’m back, and that eases the anxiety. Try finding a group that enjoys the same activities that you like.

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Anonymous 13h

Nothing is wrong it’s called biology. Having things you like is cool but that’s about it. You cannot cope your way out of wanting sex and a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

I have more so acquaintances than friends. I can’t just easily text them to hang out and stuff. I wish I did but yeah nope.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

More like how do I nourish my body and heart when I do the things I love but still find myself short

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Then step 1 is making friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

I wish it were easy. I make plans and invite but they make excuses. They don’t wanna spend their time and money with me. But also they’re not really captivated to do anything fun either

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

I had to learn to do things solo, and it’s good. Oh, you don’t want to do on av trip with me? See you later, and I must likely won’t message them again

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13h

I do things solo. I do everything solo. And most times I enjoy it. But late nights are hard

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