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i’m trying to become less male centered, does anyone have any advice
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Anonymous 2w

focus on yourself and what benefits you rather than what would benefit you from a man's perspective

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Anonymous 2w

Try and compliment more women and try more female dominated hobbies!

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Anonymous 2w

Make female friends

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Anonymous 2w

Read things written by women. My favorite book series has a female author, and recently I’ve been looking into Audre Lorde. I love listening to her speak, she has such a beautiful presence to her voice

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Like you a man or you don’t like men?

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Anonymous 2w

Become a man hater

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Ask you daddy

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decentering men is just as bad as centering men. just live your life normally

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I used to listen to men speak and get this internal feeling like I should pay more attention. Now that feeling is weaker, and I’m more likely to think “bleh male voice” and wonder if there’s a woman out there who has a more balanced perspective.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

neither

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

But in actuality, I used to be super male centered too, it wasn’t until I dropped people who made me feel less of myself and I took time to find what I like and who I wanted to be and in doing so I found people who actually understand and made me feel whole. Ask yourself why you want male attention so bad and reflect on that and be the version of you that you want instead of what you think a man wants.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I’m a guy and I did the opposite. I only listen to male music and only watch male YouTubers and only talk to men at work and other irl places like gym. I haven’t initiated a normal conversation with a girl since 6th grade. So 9 years and counting. I don’t even look at women anymore, not since 6th grade as well. At grocery stores I only go on lines if it’s a guy there or I do self checkout

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 2w

I- don’t think that extreme is healthy in any aspects. You can’t even have a conversation with women? Or look at us? That’s extremely weird.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 2w

I don’t wanna make them uncomfortable and make them think I’m a pervert staring at them or something or trying to hit on them so I stay as far away as possible. I don’t want a false accusation either. Either way it’s best for me to keep distance with women as much as possible because they don’t wanna be around me and I don’t wanna force them to see or talk to me if they don’t want to

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 2w

Yeah there’s a difference between staring at someone and completely and utterly avoiding half of the population for several years. Your fear of false accusations is making it impossible for you to interact with half of the population and that’s extremely unhealthy.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 2w

I’m ugly so women don’t wanna see or talk to me anyway so it’s better for the both of us.

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 2w

Yeah no that’s not at all how it works. Putting yourself down doesn’t explain the fact you can’t interact with half of all human beings.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 2w

Yes it does women make faces of disgust upon sight of me And just look, I’m getting downvoted just for saying this. Which proves my point. It’s not me putting myself down it’s them. I recognize they hate me so I avoid them

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 2w

You are being downvoted because you won’t engage in discussion and because you avoid half the population. If a woman did that I’d downvote her.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 2w

I’m getting downvoted because I’m right and it proves my point about how women see me

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 2w

this is elementary school logic dude. grow up please. your immaturity is why no one wants you. you’re not even ugly, you just have an ugly attitude.

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