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why do women seem to bite my arm within like 30 minutes of meeting me? like i’m not a steak i don’t think i taste good but the fact this has happened three times with 3 different women is starting to become troubling, i know it’s not all of you of course
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Anonymous 1d

it could be sexual, which is def assault, but it usually isn't for me or the people i know. if it's not sexual, it is a show of affection, at least how i do it. im not sure what kind of physical contact guys do, but maybe like a shoulder squeeze? for me it is when i get a burst of affection and i want them near me. its a primal sort of urge, which sounds super weird but its def not a logical desire or means to an end. it def means that they consider you safe, which is a good thing.

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Anonymous 1d

me personally i love to bite my boyfriend but that’s cause we’re comfortable with each other. but with someone you just met, that’s strange.

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Anonymous 15h

I miss my friends who’d bite me 😭 it was cute in a platonic way. very big on physical affection in general but I don’t like initiating, so when other people initiate for me it’s almost a relief

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

even if it is just human affection, if it makes you uncomfortable you should absolute say no. i think 30 minutes is wild cus i do not know someone well enough to care that much, but maybe they like you differently? again, could be sexual or flirting, this is just my experience

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I don’t think about it from an assault standpoint, i’ve been sa’d before and this is nothing like that but like they start holding onto my arm and then afterwards, I just feel slight pressure and I look and she’s biting me, like if it only happened once I was like okay weird experience but the fact that it happened with three different people, I just want to know what the thought process was

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

if they hang off the arm (or just stay for a while before the bite) than that is flirting/trying to get your attention. if it is a brief grab under the bite spot, short bite, then pulling away shortly after then i would say it's def just the affection/safe feeling. if it's prolonged contact at any point other than bite i would say probably flirting. it's not objectifying you per say (usually), but more highlighting that you are strong/a provider type. it shows a woman letting her guard down

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