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why do women stay with men who have cheated on them multiple times? i’m a queer woman who cannot fathom doing that. pls help me understand
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Anonymous 2w

Strong minded and self respecting women don’t stay

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Anonymous 2w

i could never be with someone after they physically cheat so idk i def judge those who do bc like it’ll happen again

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Anonymous 2w

stockholm syndrome basically

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Anonymous 2w

I think I know why but I’m not a woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Why do you think I’m actually curious

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Because they think nobody else will love them or there are some things about that person which they like which they think they won’t find in anyone else. I stayed with my toxic ex who emotionally abused me for the exact same reasons. I couldn’t break up with her because she’d kill herself. I would be late to work every day because I’d try to stop her from killing herself, and I sacrificed my grades and my wellbeing. And I got fired from that job but I was 18 and it was my first job.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

although I feel some may not agree, especially due to like the “harsh” wording, I completely agree. There’s usually deeper levels to it but for instance one of my best friends has literal attachment issues where she cannot be alone in terms of a boyfriend. And I feel it’s cause she’s been in only toxic ones since middle school and that just fucked up her brain too much into thinking she’s not worth anything better so she just goes back.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

How is it harsh wording?

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