Ask Women on Sidechat | My first gf just got married to a partner she met like a month after we broke up, I’ve been single ever since. Ngl, makes me feel pretty worthless. Any advice?

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My first gf just got married to a partner she met like a month after we broke up, I’ve been single ever since. Ngl, makes me feel pretty worthless. Any advice?

Anonymous 11h

lmfao getting married after a month is fucking stupid. why would somebody who clearly isnt intelligent make u feel worthless? pick up ur chin king, theres billions of people out there

Anonymous 12h

Im sure this feels obvious but its so important to work on yourself to separate your self worth from being attached to another person or people romantically

Anonymous 10h

my ex is with someone else and although i miss him a lot but i just hope he’s happy. if you loved her wouldn’t you want her to be happy. her happiness doesn’t have to take a toll on your self esteem

Anonymous 7h

Who would you feel bad about some low iq girl leaving you

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Anonymous 12h

Go to therapy. Reflect on what all these things individually mean. Reframe how you’re viewing this situation. A woman you loved many moons ago is being loved properly and is pursuing something with someone else. If you truly love her, this in itself is a great thing. End story.

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Anonymous

beestboy 11h

Separately, “I’ve been single ever since, makes me feel worthless” reframe this. Your worth is not tied to some relationship, you’re great with her, with someone, and by yourself, no matter what. A diamond is a diamond whether it’s on a ring or in the dirt. Know, honor, and respect your worth.

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Anonymous

#3 6h

They didn’t say they got married a month after, only that they met a month after and “just” got married. It was however amount of time after but not a month