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I’m in college rn and I don’t have a car but there’s this girl I really like and I really want to make a move but I feel like I can’t bc I can’t even take her on a date and her bday is coming up should I get her something or just move on?
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Anonymous 3w

You don’t need a car to date

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Anonymous 3w

tbh in college it's a weird time for those things, and it may take a hit to the ego to not have a car but how you get there really shouldn't matter if you actually like her. Best option besides a bus is eat the uber money

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I mean to take her out on one Idk I just feel like as a man bare minimum is to drive her somewhere nice

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I mean it could be nice, but she is a grown up who can get there herself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Is there no where walking distance u could go? It’s normal for people not to have cars at college so she probably wont care just raise the bar somewhere else on the date like bring her flowers or get a surprise dessert at the end of dinner. It’s not about what u have but the effort you put in

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